Basically I spent the past two months carefully determining a budget and the past week just wanting to throw that all away. I honestly can't even rank what vendors or wedding aspects are more important to me because everything is important to me and I fall in love with everything I see. I'm like in the crazy mindset of "why not?! I deserve the amazing $3500 photographer over the $2,000 one" when normally I am very frugal so I feel so conflicted!My venue budget proposal came in and it's more than expected. I know the smart choice is pushing back to 2019 for the wedding but all week I've been considering subletting our spare bedroom for $1000 per month (we live in NYC) just so I can get married 2018 like I want to.I haven't made any spending decisions this week because I feel like this decision on pushing the wedding date back or not will effect the entire plan and I just am torn between my heart and my brain.I mean is subletting your spare bedroom and picking up some extra Saturday shifts so bad? Or am I adding unnecessary stress to my life? Please give me the real talk and be honest ladies! via /r/weddingplanning http://ift.tt/2v9NC88
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