Monday, July 10, 2017

Mom thinks telling people to not wear white on website is tacky?


Okay y'all, so first I'm on mobile so sorry for the formatting and auto correct.My mom and I have been talking about this and going back and forth for weeks now. Yes, this might be bridezillay or what not but I really can't help how I feel about this. I do not want ANYONE wearing white to my wedding. In my region everyone should know it's distasteful and should be avoided. We are having a black tie optional wedding, evening ceremony (like 6 maybe), with dark colors and the only white will be in my bouquet. Literally nothing else.So under a section of the FAQ on the website I listed lightly:WHAT SHOULD I WEAR?The event will be black tie optional. This means a darker suit or optional tux for men. For women, this would mean a floor length or appropriate cocktail dress or suit.As is tradition, please let the bride be the only one wearing white :)That's the only mention of it through out the whole wedding. The invitations will only say black tie optional.Idk why I care so much but I do. People say they won't outshine me and it doesn't matter blah blah blah. It still makes my blood boil because in this day in age with access to internet and constant posts about not wearing white, I feel like people should know and if they know and still do it, it's disrespectful as he'll.Yeah, slightly bridezilla-y, but should I just remove it? I feel like one little statement in an FAQ blurb and no other mention isn't that "distasteful" and "gaudy" as my mom puts it.Thoughts? via /r/weddingplanning http://ift.tt/2u5leDx

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