Two of the wedding party are getting divorced, and I need advice!

My matron of honor and one of my groomsmen are currently in the early stages of a divorce. And boy howdy do they f*cking hate each other.My problem is they are both, at random intervals, taking it out on me. She's randomly gets upset with me for "judging her" because (and I'm honest to God quoting here) "you knew K first MRAGGGAN, so why wouldn't you judge me?!?" I am NOT judging her. I agree with about 50% of the reasons why she wants a divorce.Now my groomsmen (who has been my best friend since 2008) has a tendency to just blow up. Especially after she's been antagonizing him all day. When he calls me for advice, and I offer it, he flips out. He does generally apologize, but, frankly I am f*cking tired of it.Then, come to find out, TWO of the other groomsmen are getting involved in their damn divorce.What do I do weddit? I am about to yank every last one of them in a padded room, tell them to f*ck off, and that they're out! FH told me I'm just being a little overly sensitive to all this because it's two of my best friends.What. Do. I. Do?(Short of punching and cussing...) via /r/weddingplanning http://ift.tt/2tQhUJo