[Vent] Life is insanely stressful and all anyone asks about is this stupid wedding

So 2.5 months ago I quit my decent paying job to re-take the Bar exam in a couple of weeks. I also planned on getting a legal/compliance sort of job during this time and wasn't worried really. I had PTO banked to cash out and I have never ever had an issue finding a job. Our wedding is in October but I thought it wouldn't be a big deal.Well, now...I don't have a job yet (other than a daycare to pay basic bills). I'm making zero traction. We've had a number of unexpected expenses in the last 2 months. I'm studying as much as I can but I'm terrified of failing the Bar. Again. And all of this being for nothing. And I don't know where to go from here.And all anyone asks about? THE WEDDING. Even our parents and friends who know what's going on! "Oh how are wedding plans?" "Are you excited??" "What else have you done for the wedding lately?" NOTHING. I DON'T CARE ABOUT THIS FUCKING WEDDING WHEN WE'RE COMPLETELY BROKE AND I HAVE NO JOB. I can't even think about the vendors we still have to pay. It all makes me want to vomit. And anytime I say something about how we have other stress right now people just shrug it off like "Oh it's fine, you'll figure it out". I'M MORE THAN A BRIDE, DAMMIT. via /r/weddingplanning http://ift.tt/2tXMnbI