MOH here, Should I tell the bride how I feel about the Bridesmaids look

First, Im on mobile so excuse any formatting or spelling issues.The wedding is coming up this fall. Usually I say its her day, but I feel unlistened too. Also it might be important to note she has never been a bridesmaid herself.The gist: Bridesmaids are all wearing the same dress, same color (red), same shoes, Bride wants us all to wear red lipstick, and though it isn't set yet she's hinted to same/similar hair.I think she is making unilateral decisions based on what she would want if she were a bridesmaid.Reasons: The type of shoe has meaning to her and fiance, she loves her lipstick to match perfectly, and when ever she suggests hair she say "probs an x like I wore to y"I guess I'm just losing my sense of self. I feel like we are all going to just be clones of each other with nothing making me, me or the others, them. I dont mind the dress and shoes, they are okay. My big issue is with the lipstick tbh. I have never felt comfortable in Red lipstick, and feel like I am going to be self consious the entire wedding. Anytime I bring up my concerns she say "I wear red and red all the time, I'm sure you all will look beautiful!"There was also an issue before where she and a bridesmaid went to look at dresses and she liked one. i went to try it on and it looked awful on me, told her I hated it but she said "oh well thats going to be it!" and only changed her mind because it didnt come in another girls size.I havent told the whole "carbon copy of her" thing. I dont even think she realizes shes doing it, but rather thinks "this is what I think looks good, so thats what it shall be" I also havent stated how I feel exactly in red lipstick. I've told her it isnt my favorite, that I havent seen a lot of people do exact red matches, and concerns for others with different skin tones, but she brushes it off.Do you guys think I should address this or do I just let it be? I dont want to make her out as someone who doesnt care, shes a great human. I just dont think she knows what she is doing. I am also not afraid to stick up for myself, but would it be worth it? via /r/wedding http://ift.tt/2udbgk9